Crying during your vows is completely normal. Here’s how to handle it gracefully.
Accept That It Might Happen
The more you fight tears, the harder they can hit. Accept that this is an emotional moment and that some tears are beautiful.
Build in Pauses
Write your vows with natural breaking points. If you feel emotion rising, you can pause, take a breath, and continue.
Practice Out Loud
Reading your vows aloud multiple times before the wedding helps you get through the emotional parts. You’ll know which lines hit hardest.
Have a Backup
Consider giving a copy to your officiant. If you truly can’t continue, they can help you through it or read on your behalf.
Remember: No One Minds
Your partner and guests understand. A few tears show how much this moment means to you. Take your time, breathe, and know that it’s okay.
Tears are not a failure. They’re proof that you mean every word.
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