Write vows that sound like you

Wedding vows are one of the most personal things you'll ever write. But staring at a blank page can feel impossible. We built vows.you to help.

We started vows.you because we saw too many people struggling with this moment. They wanted to say something meaningful, but didn't know where to start. Generic templates felt hollow. Last-minute panic led to vows that didn't capture what they really felt.

So we created something different.

vows.you uses thoughtful prompts to help you uncover the stories, memories, and promises that matter most. We guide you through structure and tone so your vows flow naturally. And we give you tools to practice until you feel confident.

The result? Vows that sound like you. Personal, not generic. Words you'll be proud to say out loud.

Your voice matters

We don't write your vows for you. We help you find the words that are already inside you. Because the best vows come from your own heart and your own story.

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What we believe

These principles guide everything we build.

Clarity over cleverness

Your vows should be clear and true, not filled with fancy phrases that don't sound like you. We help you find the simple words that say exactly what you mean.

Honesty matters

The best vows come from honest reflection. We ask questions that help you get to the heart of what your relationship means to you.

Inclusive by design

Love is love. Our prompts are gender-neutral and work for every couple. Your vows should reflect your relationship, whoever you are.

Calm confidence

Writing vows can feel overwhelming. We're here to make the process feel manageable, even enjoyable. By the time you're done, you'll feel ready.

How it works

Three simple steps to vows you'll be proud of.

  • 1. Answer prompts

    We ask thoughtful questions about your relationship, your partner, and what you want to say.

  • 2. Build structure

    Your answers become the building blocks of your vows. We help you organize them into a natural flow.

  • 3. Refine and practice

    Edit, polish, and practice reading aloud until your vows feel just right.

Guides for writing vows

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Vow Writing Timeline: When to Start

December 15, 2024

Vow Writing Timeline: When to Start

A practical timeline for writing your wedding vows so you're not scrambling at the last minute.

What Promises to Include in Your Vows

March 15, 2025

What Promises to Include in Your Vows

The heart of wedding vows is the promises you make. Here's how to write promises that are meaningful and realistic.

How to Practice Reading Your Vows

March 01, 2025

How to Practice Reading Your Vows

Tips for practicing your wedding vows so you feel confident and present on your ceremony day.